Sela Ward is a two-time Emmy®-Award winner for two hit shows and stars in the new movie *The Stepfather,* but she tells Rachael that she feels most at home away from the glamor and glitz of Hollywood. Shortly after she married, Sela bought a farm in her home state of Mississippi. "I wanted my kids to really know what living outside of Los Angeles was like and to really have a down home experience of life," she says. "In Mississippi, you definitely get that ... [the kids] don't know life without that." Rachael wants to know the secret to Sela's 17-year marriage. "A lot of therapy!" she laughs. "It's called 'you go to your therapist and I'll go to mine' and then we don't have to deal with each other's stuff. I'm not kidding - I think it's the healthiest thing anybody can do. But I will say marriage is tough, I don't care how great it is on paper. But I love my husband, he's a great dad and just I couldn't live without him, he's awesome. But then I want to kill him half the time too!" Watch the video above to see what Sela has to say about some of her hunky co-stars like George Clooney and Harrison Ford, and check out some of the pumpkin seed recipes that Rachael teaches her: [Sweet and Spicy Pumpkin Seeds](/food/recipes/sweet-and-spicy-pumpkin-seeds/) [Curried Pumpkin Seeds](/food/recipes/curried-pumpkin-seeds/) [Smoky Chipotle Pumpkin Seeds](/food/recipes/smoky-chipotle-pumpkin-seeds/)